 | The Real Housewives Of New Jersey: Melissa The Wench!posted by RF Club, Group AdministratorSunday, June 19th 2011 @ 4:25 PM (not yet rated) |
Real Housewives of New Jersey!
Oh, my gosh, I didn't think it was possible but I actually feel a little sorry for Teresa Giudice. I know, I am stunned at myself. Listen, I definitely still have my issues with Teresa and her overspending but I think Teresa has been somewhat humbled by her bankruptcy!
Now, I do suspect her pathetic brother and sister in law are quite the USERS!!
This last episode put the ICING ON THE CAKE for me!! Let us just say the slip of the tongue was the best part of the last episode!! Melissa GORGA is a WENCH and that is why she SANG WENCH!! Only a TRUE BITCH uses her drama with her family to get what she wants?
TALK ABOUT A WENCH!
We all watched Melissa break out into song while hanging clothes in the closet. Now, that was smooth (shaking my head in disbelief). As I watched Melissa Gorga begin singing Amazing Grace and Joe Gorga stops playing with the children to listen to her amazing voice I just KNEW where things were going. Didn't you? Worse, I knew what those two had been up to ALL ALONG! Their pathetic strategy BECAME CRYSTAL CLEAR!!
I am over all these people and their great voices. Has Melissa been singing in Choirs? Oh, and she gave it all up to be a wife? Or, Joe's excuse was her father died so she went to College? That makes no sense. You can still go after your dream even if your father dies, right? Bottom line, Melissa and Joe saw an opportunity with Bravo. Unfortunately, they knew to get on the show they had to give Bravo drama. Therefore, Melissa and Joe decided they would go after Teresa. Oh, and why not? Teresa was hated last season and she was bashed all over the blogs and press SO Melissa figured she would be LIKED. Pathetic, I can't stand USERS!!
Now, the gymnastic meet. Melissa is a bitch. Joe KNEW the time. Teresa said 1:00pm, yes, there was confusion but by the end of the conversation Joe knew the time, he is a moron! Melissa is PLAYING games at the expense of children. If you read my blogs long enough you know I think that is BULLSHIT. Listen,We have had issues in our family too but none of us have fooled around with our kids events. I don't give a shit if my brother shows up late to my child's event I go to all his kids' events on time. WHY? Because it is about the children! They notice. Oh, and Melissa felt 'dead' inside at the meet? BULLSHIT. Melissa didn't enjoy the meet because it was not CENTERED around Melissa. Are you guys starting to catch onto Melissa? Watch her scenes. She must be the center. Everyone has to be telling Melissa that she is awesome, gorgeous and how great she is or Melissa doesn't like the scene!
Melissa works Joe good too! Oh, Joe, "I want you around your family but they treat me horrible but that is okay honey I will do it for you." As she cries and sobs about how they mistreat her. Oh, Melissa she is quite the actress. I find it funny that she writes in her blog that Teresa says Melissa has Joe wrapped around her little finger because she is good in bed and that makes her mad and yet that is all her and Joe talk about! Seems to me Melissa is a walking contradiction.
Enough about Melissa, I could go on, she drives me insane!
Kathy Wakile she seems to be trying to be the younger version of Caroline. The happy mom with perfect little kids.
The contract thing, boring. My daughter basically said, "We think those things are a joke and make fun of them and I am glad you never did them with us." Kathy's husband of course is making the classic mistake, "Have a drink with me and yeah, I did it in High School, so I can't say much." Such, mixed signals for his children. Parents NEED TO PARENT. Don't tell your High School stories when your kids are in High School and don't drink with your kids. You are not cool and it does send a mix signal. PARENT!
Oh, and Kathy thought siding with Melissa would be the way to go because Teresa lacked the fan base and I think Kathy is finding out that Melissa is an idiot and by extension Kathy is looking like an idiot too!
So, let us chat about Kathy's idol, Caroline LOL. I know many of you dislike Caroline. You see her as a 'know it all'.
Unfortunately, I feel for Caroline! Why? I am in her boat! There is nothing worse than being young, I am only 45 years old, ( I consider that young LOL) and basically 'retired'. Like it or not some women devote their lives to mothering. I have no problem with moms who have careers outside the home. I understand why some moms choose that route. Some have to work, others NEED TO WORK FOR THEIR SANITY LOL. I, like, Caroline wanted to be JUST a MOM. I did have part time jobs but the last few years I was blessed (I saw it as a blessing) to not work outside the home. Anyway, it is hard when your kids grow up and don't need you. The house goes quiet. The work is not the same. And all of sudden you are like, 'What happened?' Anyway, it was cute when Albert was telling Caroline she would be great at advising young mothers or new mothers and my daughter was watching the scene and she said, "Mom, you could do that, you did a great job too." I cannot tell you how much heart swelled at that moment. I, of course, laughed and said, "yeah, but I don't have Bravo to back me up." My daughter giggled BUT, my daughter telling me I was great and sincerely believing I had wisdom to offer with parenting made MY DAY!!
In the end, I know what Caroline is going through and empty nest syndrome is not easy and I DO NOT WANT GRANDCHILDREN to fill the void. My kids are young and just starting their lives and they are not ready for kids LOL
So, with that being said, I think Caroline and I should offer up some motherly advice to Jacqueline.
QUIT BUYING ASHLEY CARS!! That about sums it up for Jacqueline! Oh, and Jacqueline needs to stop blaming Chris. Talk with your husband and say, "No, I don't think it is right to buy Ashley a car." Bottom line, You don't buy a child or a YOUNG ADULT a car to give them an incentive to work. NOPE! Forcing them to find rides, take the train and bus should be the incentive to work and buy their own car!
Now, back to Teresa. Do I think Teresa is innocent in the mess with her brother?
No! On the other hand, I do believe Teresa did not want the family drama aired. In addition, I think Teresa at this point has handled it more gracefully, which is not an easy thing for Teresa. I think Teresa has been hurt by all of the family drama, especially for her parents. Teresa, also knows she is being used by Melissa to get publicity to get her music started. Teresa is in a no-win situation and I have a feeling things will get a lot worse before they get better.
I have been in Teresa's shoes and it hurts when your child is old enough to know when their Uncle is not showing up. Next time, Joe needs to not make a promise. Teresa needs to just focus on her girls and forget about Joe and Melissa, they have one goal and it is clear. To make Melissa a star at all costs!
Personally, I would not let Joe call Gia and get her all excited about him showing up to one of her events. See, I never use to let my kids know if my brother was gonna come to their events or not because he was unreliable too. Therefore, if he showed it was a surprise! Teresa needs to start protecting Gia's heart!
Lucy
